its just one of those times when i remembered reading about a blog post of me.

"we argued, and as usual, you always win"

that sentence, since then, has been in my mind everytime i have an argument with someone close. and i laugh at the irony of that sentence.

i remember telling Clara, a decade back, that whether or not i'm right or wrong, all you have to say is 'sorry' and the argument resolves and it just passes. it doesn't matter if i was really in the wrong or right. and it really didn't matter if justice is served.

why?

because i felt that keeping a friendship is more important to me than to have cold wars and such.

a decade later. i regained what i would now deem as a human right.

i argue. and i only say sorry when i'm all calmed down and when i think i really committed something wrong.

and perhaps i can put the past all behind me if the other party also understands on my side why i think he/she has committed wrong to the whole issue as well.

the thing is, i don't expect to win at all.
i just want you to look on things at my side, that I did look at things on your side.

and don't shout at me.

don't.